Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Stop Avoiding Emotional People!

Are you trying avoid people that are in a high emotional state, like when they are angry or upset? If you are in sells, you are missing a huge opportunity to put money in your pocket by helping people feel better. Most people buy based on emotion. They may not buy your product or service on emotion, but they will by you if you can handle the situation right.

If you find your customer or prospect in an emotional state and you can help them get to a better emotional state, you will gain credibility with them because you helped them feel better. Think about this, most people will avoid other people that are upset or angry and hope to get back with that person when they feel better. If you are the one person who can stand in the heat and help them deal with the anger or the upset by genuinely caring about them, you will have proven your ability to raise above everybody else that was avoiding the situation, waiting for it to change.

If you want drastically increase your ability to sell, and have better relationships with your friends, family and significant other, figure out how to help people feel better about them selves by helping them confront their emotions. For most you, it will require some training and personal development the get comfortable and competent with dealing with others emotional states, but the personal and monetary gain will be huge.

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